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"The Power of Choosing Happiness: Why it's a Decision, Not a Destination"

Writer's picture: Tesha  Crockett-GibsonTesha Crockett-Gibson

The Happiness Paradox

How do you measure happiness? Are you happy? How will we know when we get there? Do you think happiness is a distant goal? We often perceive happiness as something to be found, achieved, or stumbled upon. But what if we’re approaching it all wrong? What if happiness is not a hidden treasure but a choice made daily? Instead of letting life’s unpredictable twists dictate our happiness, imagine consciously choosing it every day. It’s time for a perspective shift—happiness isn't something we find, but something we choose


Making the Choice Now

Choosing to be happy is powerful, not naïve. It doesn’t mean you turn a blind eye to reality or problems; rather, it means actively managing your emotional well-being despite external circumstances. Don’t wait for a perfect moment—embrace happiness right here, right now. By doing so, you can find joy in ordinary moments and better handle life's obstacles.

While genetics and environment influence about 50% of your emotional state, you have control over the remaining 40% through your actions and mindset. Life's not always smooth sailing, but by focusing on what you can control, leaning on your support network, and remembering that tough times are temporary, you can cultivate happiness.

True happiness aligns with your core values, bringing fulfillment and peace. Even during challenges, you can find resilience in vulnerability and hope amidst uncertainty.


Daily Habits for Happiness

  • Gratitude Practice  

 Start each day by listing three things you’re grateful for. This helps shift your focus to abundance instead of scarcity.


  • Positive Surroundings  

 Engage with people who uplift and inspire you—their energy will bolster your commitment to happiness.


  • Mindfulness and Meditation  

 Dedicate a few minutes daily to mindfulness or meditation. These practices center you, fostering peace and clarity.


  • Intentional Living  

 Set daily intentions for how you want to feel and what you aim to achieve. This purposeful start shapes your entire day.


Happiness Is a Choice, Here and Now

Remember, happiness isn’t something you chase; it’s something you choose. By cultivating a mindset that prioritizes joy, gratitude, and intentionality, you unlock the secret to a meaningful existence. Take control of your happiness today and witness the remarkable transformation in your life..

 
 
 

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